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I was first introduced to Facebook many years ago by a young colleague who I shared an office space with.  She told me about it and I decided to take a peak and create a profile.  I mostly thought it might be fun to see if I could find some old school friends and I loved you could see photos of their lives and what they were up to.  I used it only intermittently until about five years ago when the landscape of Facebook really began to change significantly.  Suddenly it was not just for connecting with friends but a bona fide marketing, business and branding tool that you could use to incredible benefit for nothing more than your time and the cost of an internet connection.

Fan pages for businesses, charities, celebrities and brands popped up everywhere with links being posted to drive people to buy, support, engage with and read blogging and website content.  People who ran businesses and blogs quickly realised with the millions of people on Facebook actively engaged online and often on there for extended periods of time…this was a chance to get new readers, customers or clients.  This was, in essence, a chance to make money.  And it should be pointed out – there’s nothing wrong with that – because if you are in business today and you aren’t using social media to support that business – you’re missing out and should do something to learn about how to use it to your advantage as quickly as possible.

Like with anything that involves human interaction though, it shouldn’t come as much of a surprise that as more pages on Facebook have been created that have the ultimate goal of getting people to ‘like’, comment and engage with them, that cracks have started to appear in the way people are going about this.  There’s spamming.  Outright rudeness.  Attempts at poaching people from one page to another.  Brands fighting with each other.  And I’m not just talking Coca-Cola and Pepsi here.  I’m talking about in some instances, two local Mums going at it while trying to make the best of their home based businesses.

When I coach clients who either have a business or want to start one, one of the key things we discuss as part of their growth, marketing and engagement plan is how they can use things like Twitter and Facebook.  I watch and monitor their pages and accounts carefully and it seems like more and more of late I’m noticing (as are they!) that some of the ‘behaviour’ on Facebook is – shall we say – less than appropriate and ok.  While some may disagree with the following sentiments, as someone who runs what I consider to be a successful Facebook page with positive engagement, here are my best tips and understanding of what makes someone and a business a great Facebook user and engager.

-          If you post on a professional business/blog page with nothing more than an ask to come and like your page you are spamming.  You are taking up space on their wall by imposing yourself on them with a free advertisement for your own page.  This is not a nice or positive thing to do and you should be prepared to be deleted or even blocked as a result.  If you run a page yourself and people are doing this to you I believe you have every right to stop people from doing it if you do not want your wall to be taken up with post after post of other people’s pages and not your own content.

-          If you post on a professional/blog page and leave a nice comment tagging yourself saying ‘Hey, I like your page and I’m your newest fan!’ – that’s nice.  Thank you.  Happy for you to join in the fun of my page.  Can you see the very big difference there?  You’ve actually said something nice about the page of the wall you are writing on.  You’ve given something out.  Left a compliment.  Don’t ruin it by then going on to say ‘And now please come over and like my page back!’  Again – you just stepped into a spammers shoes.  Just leave your nice comment and have faith that if people are interested in your page – they’ll pop over and like you.

-          If you are truly wanting to get more people to like your page and engage with what you do, start using Facebook under not your profile – but the profile of the page you want more people to connect with.  ‘Like’ all the pages you can that are both in your field and you genuinely do like under your pages name and start commenting on things they post in a positive and friendly way.  You are deliberately getting your name out there and making it super easy for people to click on your pages name and be taken straight to where you need them to go.

-          When you leave a comment on a Facebook page either under your own name or that of your professional page and you then link to your own website within that comment – again – you’re spamming.  You are taking up space on someone else’s page which they have carefully built to advertise your own stuff.  Don’t do it.  The only exception to this is literally if what is being discussed you have a link too that will deeply add to the conversation that is taking place.  But linking to your post about designer headbands on a post that’s about the best way to pack a travel bag?  Not ok.

-          You know that contest/promo/thing you’re running to try and get people to like your page and then you’ll give them a prize by announcing on the page the winner etc etc?  It’s entirely against Facebook guidelines and you’re running the gamut and huge risk of having your page wiped off the Facebook landscape by Facebook themselves.  Don’t run the risk.  Follow the guidelines properly and do the right thing not just by you but by everyone else who is following the rules too.

-          When you share a post from another page I’m a fan of how Facebook states ‘via…’ which gives credit to where you first saw it.  Nice.  Another way to do this is to tag a page with an @ symbol before their name which provides a live link to their page.  Annoyingly, Facebook does not always allow this to happen which is not your fault if you’ve tried but the main thing is that you’ve shared something of theirs anyway which is a great way to drive traffic and new people to their site.

I should finish this post by stating that by no means am not a social media expert.  If you want to connect in with some great people who are, try the team at Mashable, Laura Roeder and Australia’s own Chantelle Ellem.  They are all a rich source of positive information about not just Facebook but social media in general.

And I think this the most important thing to remember….Building a presence on something like Facebook takes time, commitment and dedication to the people you are wanting to connect with and serve.  There are no true shortcuts save from paying someone to get all their ’friends’ to like your page but will then only dump you a month later.

Don’t laugh.  People do it.

But you don’t need to.  The fans, likers, commenters and great people you want to connect with will come with self belief and nurturing and loving that page and business of yours.  I’m certain of it.

Do you manage a Facebook page?  How are you finding it?  Do you agree with some of my etiquette points or possibly none at all?  Love your thoughts.

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When you run a business or even a blog that you would love more readers for, your mindset to that undertaking plays a huge part in its success.  When I say huge…I mean it.  Huge.

You can have a chic brand or header, beautiful imagery, incredible products and a kick ass business plan but if you don’t believe in what you are doing and back that up with your actions – you will fold.

Harsh?  No.  Just a truth delivery designed to get you not only thinking about, but knowing, that your mindset and attitude is the cornerstone and foundation to your success.

And the links between your positive, negative, fearful, flying or anything in between mindset translate directly into what you do or don’t do in your business.  When you fully back your business or blog you back yourself.  You carry it with you everywhere because you know that your next client, customer or reader could be just around the corner, just waiting for you and what you can do for them.

Women in business who truly believe in what they do have an outstandingly positive mindset and belief which can be seen in actions like the following…

They carry their business cards with them everywhere knowing that the one time they don’t have them will be the one time someone needs that card – and them.  

They speak openly and with passion whenever anyone asks what they do or what on earth blogging is.

They take every opportunity they can to talk to people about their enterprise knowing that what they do and have is absolutely something that many, many people may want or need.

They focus on doing what needs to be done to make their business the best it can be for them and not spend too much time consumed with what their competition is doing.

They aren’t afraid of selling or self promotion and they do it in a way that is righteously respectful.  They know if they don’t sell and self promote they won’t sell anything.  No sales or self promotion = bye bye.

So beautiful you….if you are truly wanting to take your blog and/or business to the next level or wondering why things may not be moving in the direction you hoped for; it’s time to get really honest with yourself.  Are you actually afraid of success?  What’s holding you back from promoting your products?  What’s the real reason all your family and friends don’t know about your business dream?  Are you being your own best business friend?

Take the time to truly reflect and spend some loving time with yourself.  The issue or barrier you are facing may not be that you need a fancy new logo.  It may be something much closer to home.  And that’s a good thing beautiful.  A very good thing.  Because all the power and control is in your hands to positively change it.  And you totally can.

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Image: Zsa Zsa Bellagio

Many times when counselling and coaching clients come to me either with a concern or a beautiful goal they want to make happen they will say ‘I don’t know where to begin – It’s overwhelming – How do I start? – I’m not sure what to do for the first step.’

It may sound simple, and really it is, but my response is always to Begin Anywhere. 

I don’t believe it is possible to make ‘a mistake’ when you are deliberately taking positive action towards something you want to happen.  There are no real mistakes to be made in trying to achieve.  Only experiences.  Lessons.  Trials.  Triumphs.

So don’t get too caught up in what’s the right thing to do to begin ok?  No need to overthink.  Just take action.

Do one thing that you know is going to help you feel better, especially if you know that thing has worked in the past.  For your goal or dream…just start.  It doesn’t matter what you do!  It may be research.  Organising your finances.  Calling a business advisor.  Enrolling in a course.  Doing a vision board.  It can be anything.  Really.

And then the real trick is to keep doing things – repetitive things if they make you feel good and are working.  New and diverse things to help you reach out for success in a variety of areas.

What are you dreaming, hoping, wishing, planning or wanting to begin Beautiful You?

I’d love to know – and remember…you can Begin Anywhere! 

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You’ve got a kickin’ website.  Amazing products you have made with your own brains and hands, or sourced and masterminded to sell.  You’ve educated yourself and honed your skills to be able to deliver that service – that extension of you – that you know others need.

Every distant family member and acquaintance, let alone immediately family and friend, knows you are puttin’ it out there and have become your own boss.  You’ve researched.  Studied.  Done your homework.  Facebook page?  Twitter account?  Of course.  You’re ready. Your long held dream to be your own master and go into business for your beautiful self is here or indeed, already happening.  There’s nothing stopping you.

Except you.

You can have the most amazing product knowledge, beautiful logo and all the business acoutrements you could possibly need, but if you don’t have the self confidence, belief, and yes, love for yourself, that entrepreneurship and business requires – you’ll never reach the heights you really want to.  Or really deserve to.

Learning to love and respect yourself makes absolute business sense.  In so many ways. 

Why? 

When you love yourself you create a brand that reflects you.  It’s something that is YOU on a screen, or card, or piece of paper.  It’s your style and a public expression of your taste.  A self loving brand is one that comes from your heart and is not influenced by others or selling and marketing goals.  The sales will come Beautiful You – when you create a brand that has YOU at it’s centre.   

When you love yourself you speak your truth. You express yourself in a way that is conversational and reflects what you would like when delivering your service or goods in person.  If you’re not a reserved and formal person – why write your content that way?  If you have a wicked sense of humour – share it!  Really want to tell your customers or readers something authentic about yourself but afraid?  What for?  Those who are meant to stay and be with you, will stay and be with you.

When you love yourself you put yourself out there. You take speaking engagements.  You never pass up opportunities to showcase your goods at fetes, fairs and expo’s.  You gladly tell everyone about what you do.  It’s about having confidence in yourself first – and what you do, create and sell second.  The thought of turning something down because you are worried you aren’t good enough, don’t look ’right,’ or aren’t as successful as others doesn’t weigh you down.  You’re out there believing in you and what you do.  

When you love yourself you embrace self promotion.  Yes.  Embrace it.  You don’t shy away from marketing yourself and openly sharing with your potential customers what you do and how you can provide for them.  Why?  Because you believe in yourself and what you offer so much that you share it with people in a way that is respectful, meaningful and offers value to their life.  If it’s not for them – gosh that’s ok.  Truly it is.  If it is for them well they just may never have come to you if you hadn’t tweeted, or told them about your new product or shared a link telling the world – you’ve got something they just may be interested in.

When you love yourself you speak about what you do with confidence and pride.  You would never be meek or coy.  You’re thrilled to tell people you’re an entrepreneur!  You love what you do.  You recognise that there are literally millions of people the world over that could benefit from your goods or services and that they are absolutely worth talking about with joy and pride.

When you love yourself you can handle criticism and setbacks.  You’re strong and solid enough to realise that putting yourself out there means not all will agree, want, or even like what you do.  And you’re ok with it.  What others think is not nearly as important to you as what YOU think.  How revolutionary is that?  This strength also sees you pull yourself up when things don’t go your way or you quite literally fall into a hole.  You know it won’t last and a new path or the next chapter will unfold.  Why?  Because you believe it will, and you take confident steps to make it happen.

When you love yourself you set boundaries.   You value your physical, mental and emotional health enough to switch off from the world of business and just chill, or run, or sleep, or get a pedicure – whatever you need to do.  You don’t return non-urgent calls after hours, you’d never be one of those people that leaves a movie to answer a page and you shut that laptop or step away from that computer regularly and with no remorse so you can give to yourself.  You embrace what you need. 

When you love yourself you invest in your business. You seek out a mentor in your field to help guide and support you.  You join a network of professionals both in person and online that can support your business and your growth and they may just become customers as well.  You form or join a mastermind class.   You get a coach.  A copywriter.  A psychic.  You understand the value of spending money on not just the ‘nuts and bolts’ of your business – but on YOU.  I’m happy to share with you that in the coming months I am going to be working with coach Tara Gentile and copywriter Alexandra Franzen.  The excitement is palpable.  I’m my own Santa.

When you love yourself you accept help.  When people become enthused about what you do and they offer to help you – seek out if they really can – and if they’ve got the goods – you take them up.  You invite people into your life that can support and inspire you.  When your partner, or best friend, or neighbour, offers to help you pack and store your latest shipment, you smile, do it together and break open the teapot and good biscuits for them afterwards. 

When you love yourself you let the competition be.  You’re too busy focusing on you and your business to be overly concerned with what anyone else is doing.  You don’t feel the need to compare yourself to anyone.  You have a strong enough sense of self and purpose that you can draw inspiration from what others are doing or simply send them good vibes and leave them enjoy their own success.  Some people may think I’m nuts, but I link to, tweet to, Facebook to and profile in my newsletter, other counsellors, coaches and people doing similar things in my field….um, a lot.  Should it not concern me I’m driving business to them and away from me?  Nope.  It’s not the way I think.  If of course they are doing something that is exactly like a current project of mine – sure, I pull back from that.  But great content they write, courses that I’m not running, a service they provide, an ebook on an amazing topic?  I want to tell Beautiful You about it because I know it can add value to your life.  In turn, the generous person I hope that I am takes action and is.

When you love yourself you charge what you’re worth. Yep.  This is the big one.  Money.  Loving you means you would never knowingly undersell or undervalue your products and services.  That necklace, or dress, or service you have put your whole heart, not to mention, countless hours into.  You know that one?  Or that many?  You charge what it’s really, really worth.  You know that it is going to bring great joy to someone very fortunate who purchases it.  Or great confidence.  Or great insight.  You charge what it’s really, really worth.  And if you’re not sure what that is?  By my calculation its the price that doesn’t make you feel outrageously nervous and conversely, like you will be resentful because you know what you have created and can offer is genuinely worth more.  It’s somewhere in between those two.   

So get your self love on Beautiful You.  Self love is not just about what you need as a person day to day.  It can immeasurably help you propel your business to where you want it to be – looking amazing – coming from your heart – reflecting your values – focused on you – engaged in hot promotion – and yes, oh yes – bringing in the cash.

Not sure where to begin?

These are the best posts I have created here at Beautiful You that are focused on self love, confidence and being proud to be you.  There are lots of tips, suggestions and ideas for you to develop a deeper sense of self love for yourself.  One that will see you grow.  And your business soar.

You Have Courage

The Staircase to Success

Believe in Yourself

Look How You Shine

You’re Doing a Great Job

Loving Beautiful You

Your True Colours

Believe in Yourself (Again!)

Madly in Love With Me

Loving Your Looks

Show the World Your Magic

Love Your Body

Self Love Lessons

Self Esteem and Social Media

Love Your Flaws

Invest in Beautiful You 

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