It’s been some time since I was at school but I’m delighted to tell you all that I am going back as of next week. It’s not traditional school, but “Inner Mean Girl Reform School” where I have been thrilled to be asked to become a Self Love Ambassador by internationally recognised coaches Christine Arylo from the Madly In Love With Me movement and Amy Ahler from Wake Up Call Coaching.
I’m incredibly excited to be joining women from around the world at this special reform school to learn about transformational ways I can help Beautiful You learn ways to tame your negative voice and replace it with one that is self loving and supportive. I feel very blessed to say that I feel as if my inner ‘mean girl’ left me many years ago, although of course there are always times when I can feel low and doubt and negativity can creep back in. I’m absolutely human. I am essentially a positive and self loving person however, and Beautiful You is my way of sharing some of my life philosophy with you. There is always more to learn in life however, and I am sure this special school will give me just that.
So…what does your ‘inner mean girl’ potentially sound like? She’s inside your head whispering (or shouting) at you things like -
“You’re not doing enough.”
“Why aren’t you as good as her?”
“She’s much thinner and prettier than you. You need to go on a diet.”
Sound familiar?
This is the voice of your Inner Mean Girl. She’s negative, judgmental, and potentially dragging you down, way down, from where you should be. She compares your worst to everyone else’s best. She’s slowing you down, running you ragged, and keeping you from your dreams.
While this all may seem disastrous, the best thing to know about your Inner Mean Girl is that she is a liar and YOU are totally in control of her. What I am going to be learning about and blogging over the next six weeks is how you can tame your Inner Mean Girl forever and I promise to pass absolutely everything on to you that I find helpful, inspiring and of potential to help you live your best life.
If you have a very nasty Inner Mean Girl or you would prefer to learn directly yourself, why not join me at school? We can be class buddies! The Inner Mean Girl Reform School is absolutely FREE and conducted entirely online, meaning you can do it from anywhere in the world. It might just be the best school you have ever been to.
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Oh Julie you are such an inspiration and thank you for your lovely blog.
I may just sign up and do the course with you.
ShoppeGirls – Yay! Do it for yourself. I'm very excited and really looking forward to it.
Thanks for the lovely feedback.
Congratulations Julie on being asked to be an Ambassador. It sounds like a wonderful program. I hope you'll be sharing your learnings as you progress. Cherry
Why did I even hesitate…I'm cleansing with you!
Cherry
So nice to meet you, Julie. I look forward to doing the cleanse with you and being ambassadors together! I also can't wait to check out more of your blog.
Hi Julie, I'm also doing the Inner Mean Girl Cleanse. This is such a big step towards moving towards a happier me. I look forward to sharing this journey with you.